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Okoh Ibitade Chukwuemeke

I'm Bisco. A young writer and geek. As part of my dream to see everybody around me live an improved,first class and above average life. Feel free to read more and contact me when necessary using the social media links below.

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    Steven Justice

    Being weak willed is one problem I myself have had to deal with I must confess, given to my temperament, you will agree with me that it’s never wrong to people, especially those you consider your mentors, but then everything has got it’s limits and Paul went beyond that limit. Never please people so much that you displease your self. Only God enjoys that privilege

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      Bisco Ibitade

      Everything has got its limit, we all have to understand that. Thank you Steven, I appreciate you for ALWAYS commenting when you read an amazing post here. Thanks!

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    Toby Nwazor

    Hi Bisco
    Great story,this happens to the best of us.It’s the temptation to want to prove a point to the people we love that we can be what they think we’re.Paul fell for it and that sent his life down that spiral path.Following our hearts calling is the key to a fulfilling life.Nice story.

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      Bisco Ibitade

      Thanks Tobi, We always make that mistake of pleasing others, expecially those who have shown us one favour or the other, when we understand risks, then we should make corrections. Thanks for checking this out, and commenting- I hope to have you around more.

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    Hi Bisco

    Great story and it is so sad but we all can relate to this in our world. I guess you have said all. You can’t please anyone but it is sad to displease yourself. Saying No does no harm . Thanks for sharing and have an awesome week.

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      Bisco Ibitade

      Hello Ikechi, thanks for reading and then commenting, of course there’s no harm in saying NO. Hope to have you around again

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    This is a beautiful post I stumbled upon while searching for Personal Development blogs like mine.
    And a very relevant topic too
    Sometimes we have to learn how to put oursleves first instead of succumbing continually to pleasing others at a detriment of ourselves.
    It’s hard but the day a man realizes he needs not be bothered about the opinions of others, he has grasped at freedom.
    Great work

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      Bisco Ibitade

      Thank you Imaobong. I appreciate your visit and discovery of the blog. And you have stressed a valid point too. I’ve checked out your blog, and its amazing too. Keep it up.


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